Mark and Angel Chernoff are two inspirational authors, life hackers, and 1000 little things different writers of Happy Successful People. Here’s their awesome post on 10 options which you will not regret in 10 years. Finally, more than anything else, we are sorry about the occasions that we did not take, the relationships we were very afraid of, and there was a long wait to make the decision. On the occasion you delayed. The friend you never called. Left those important words you left You to know now what I am saying.
Each of us has experienced feelings of regret. But setting things straight is not too late. We are still breathing here. Today we have the opportunity to change tomorrow. Right now, we can be sorry for our later years.
Now is the time to make the best of every day. Here are some ideas to start with – Ten things you can start now that you will not regret the road for 10 years:
# 1. Explore what you love, and own it.
If you are trying to spend your life in love with someone else, you will be sad. Try things – try everything. exploration. Learn about the music you listen to inside and what your heart swells, then do. Learn what you can do about it, and find other people they love. If you destroy while pretending to love something because others think you are “quiet”, you will end up with the wrong people and circumstances in your life. Love what you love and become yourself, and you will end up lifestyle and relationships that make you really happy.
# 2. Keep your thoughts about your life, every day, every day.
While working on point 1, you will basically meet people who want to take you in a different direction – their direction. Just remember, what is appropriate for them, may be wrong for you, and vice versa. The truth is that the world is not, but as we see. We all see it differently. If you live a boring unhappy life because you completely ignored it and listened to your parents instead, a girl or coworker tells you how to live your life, so you do not have any drawbacks. Frankly, the most intelligent and courageous task is to think only to yourself and to hear about intuition. It is better to live someone else’s life than to die in your own way. (Choose yourself!)
# 3. Get up every morning and do the right things.
The world is not alive to you. Want to give life to the world. So, stop daydreaming and start getting started. The development of the spinal cord, will not bear full responsibility for controlling your life. You are important and need it. Someday it is too late to do something and wait for someone. What day is now someone needs a world that focuses on being busy with you, do not participate. Do not speak Get the right things (also include things from your personal life)
# 4. Put your smartphone down and be more present.
Is it worse than getting something else and not understanding how to get there? Worse, it looks great after it’s over. Living is a basic assumption at the moment, but with the simplest things, we often find a way to complicate them. But because it is not complicated about the appreciation and concentration of life. There is nothing complicated about being here. You will not miss the awesome Instagram images that appear on your feed. However, you will want to remember stories and stories that live through your stories. Then enter the door.
# 5. Practice continuous kindness.
Mercy is always the best response to any attitude. When you grow up and look towards your life, you forget a lot of things that seem important to you. You may not remember what you had in GPA high school or college. You’ll see your peers (or any other social network on the Internet) on Facebook and wonder why this girl / boy is lost. You will remember the toughest times in which you get the best of what you have. But you will never forget those who were really good – who helped you to hurt, and loved you even when you felt unwanted. As much as possible to others as much as possible. (As you know, it comes.)
# 6. Love yourself too.
There is no big chance of this, the first person caught in your eyes was not “one” and secondly, maybe the third or fourth not. You know why? So you’re the one. Love is not anywhere else that someone else can give you. It’s already inside you. This is the sacred part of each of us that makes us human. Some wonderful moments come to life when you join someone else and share the love you already have. But do not forget to love yourself first. When you start loving and respecting you, they give better love to other people without limits. You will meet many wonderful people in your life, and hope you fall in love with someone else. Just remember to fall in love with your life, because no one can do it for you.
# 7. Do a little bit less and spend a little more time smiling with your favorite people.
I heard you say, “The best things in life are free.” Enjoy a good time with family and friends, enjoy pet staff, smile on your son, and feel deep and hearty moments with other important people – these times are precious and priceless. Do not carry too much in the rat race, working more than 60 hours a week, at that time where you are so close and tired of enjoying your close relationship. By simplifying your lifestyle and conscious choices on the road, it is possible to live at least, so you can work for a few hours and actually enjoy the important things.
# 8. Say what you need to say.
Hide your thoughts and feelings, especially when you make a difference. Say what you should say. Many people suppress their feelings to keep peace with others or save themselves from potential rejection. Thus, they are arranged for an average presence, and they are never able to figure out who they are. Even worse, many of these diseases develop due to bitterness and resentment, as a result. Do not be one of them. Broken words are often broken with broken words, and include your heart.
# 9. Leave the poisonous relationships behind.
You deserve to be respected. You deserve it for your family, friends and colleagues – all in your life. The best way to get respect from others is to respect yourself. Speak clearly Place your head. Stand on what you believe in Make those choices that feel good and if there is any abuse in your life then call him. If things do not change, you have to limit time and influence your life. We need people in our lives who challenge us and disagree with us, so that we can see things from a new perspective. We do not have to spend a lot of time with high-ranking people who do not respect us. It may be difficult to leave a long-term relationship, even if our inner knowledge tells us that it is time to go. But do not make any mistake, all failed relationships hurt, but leaving a toxic relationship is an advantage and not a loss.
# 10. Let those people who have already gone.
You will meet many people in your life. You are going to take the first kiss, feel all the way under your toes and believe that “Oh God, I love him,” but really … you love to love kissing. You will meet a friend who thinks you will know him forever, but then something will change and both will go differently. You will find different parts of your life with different people who are not in the long run, and that is not bad. Life is a series of stories, the way our wonderful stories can be manipulated. Sometimes people have in their lives for the whole story. Sometimes they are just a small chapter or two. To see that the chapter is over, then a brave man to run the page. Be brave and embrace you goodbye, because every “goodbye” in your life prepares you for the best “hello”.